Hullo, my Pixels!
I love writing things like this, as it feels quite therapeutic and helpful in the way that it makes you reconsider what you're doing right or wrong in your life currently. It's ridiculous how much most people change within a year, personality as well as outward appearance, so if you actually sit down and think about all the changes, it seems insane!
Dear Sommer //
Learn now that you really shouldn't bother with people who don't bother with you. Friendships work both ways, so if somebody else isn't putting in the effort, don't bother. Also, you'll have relationships with three very weird people. I don't know what came over you, but it definitely happens and there's nothing you can do.
Appreciate things more than you do though - friendships, experiences, anything which comes your way. You always avoid doing amazing things, so take opportunities while you can and love every minute of it.
A short and sweet letter, I know, but I feel like it's the most important things I really needed to hear even just a few years ago.
♥
So sweet! Writing these are definitely therapeutic
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I think it's a great way to reflect on what you've done 'wrong' over the past few years or however long. C:
ReplyDeleteoh love this idea for a post I might steal it haha .
ReplyDeleteloved your letter , it didn't have to be long. A lot of what you said is what I would have said to my younger self. I personally have had many friends that have been the way you described this. It isn;t fair. Also I would have a word with myself about how I have let people treat me. But I guess they say love is blind and now I can finally see that it was wrong but we learn from our mistakes. Well done xxx
I enjoyed it as a post! Love definitely is blind though, even if you don't realise until much later that you don't love the person. I'm sure a lot of people look back on relationships like this though. Thank you so much for the lovely comment! :3
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ReplyDeleteI feel like you've missed somebody though c;